This is one hot topic that I get asked often.. Will you have another baby? Do you want to try for a girl? Or are you sad you didn’t have a girl?!
For the last question, it always makes me laugh when people ask me that. Maybe “typically” people want a girl for their second if they already have a boy, but to be completely honest I wanted another boy. Obviously I would have been happy with a girl, but I have always wanted two older boys.. which brings me to the first question.
When Cody and I first ever started talking about kids we both wanted three. Now that we have two I am not sure I want another. I am so content and full with these two right now that I am not sure we need one more. To be honest we have not really made up our minds, and I am not ready to fully commit to that decision ( if you know what I mean.. snip snip.. sorry Cody). I think I could handle another, but right now I am BUSY. These boys are so fun but so busy. I am also young, so that is another reason why I don’t think we should commit yet. If and I really do mean that If haha.. we do go for number three I am praying that is not for a few years. I want to be in a position where we are not traveling, and possibly by family.
On the topic of trying for a girl… I secretly have always wanted two older boys and a sis, but you can’t choose folks. I might try all the old wives tales if we get to that but would 100% be happy with being a boy mama. Tell me if you guys tried those and it worked or didn’t work!! I am not sure I would know what to do if I added a little girl. I know I was a pain as a kid so not sure I want that karma sent my way. Am I right?! Sorry mom.
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